Mary McNeilly

Mary Louise McNeilly

Friday, December 7th, 1951 - Wednesday, February 19th, 2020
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Mary L. McNeilly
Horseheads, NY
Passed away at home surrounded by her loving family on Wednesday, February 19, 2020 after a courageous battle with cancer. She was born December 7, 1951 in El Paso, TX, daughter of the late Dominick and Catherine Noviello Abrunzo. Mary owned and operated Great Reflections in Horseheads for over 35 years, and will be remembered as being a loving wife, mom, grandmother and friend. She will be dearly missed by all that knew her and will always be remembered for her love of life and her family. Mary is survived by her husband of 39 years, Richard McNeilly; children, Tracy (Mark) Payne, Tina McNeilly (Charles Wakefield), Anthony (Bethany) McNeilly, Marissa (Andy) McNeilly Morrow; grandchildren, Amalia and Nicholas Dolly; siblings, Jennie Abrunzo Vegard, Virginia Abrunzo (Merritt Dailey), Anthony (Susanna) Abrunzo, Donna Abrunzo; brother-in-law, Peter (Amy) McNeilly; nieces and nephews, Daniel Vegard, Ashley and Amanda Crozier, Dominick, Calla and Michael Abrunzo; and a host of caring cousins, friends, and clients. The family will welcome relatives and friends to Sullivan’s Funeral Home, 365 E. Franklin St. at Rt. 13, Horseheads, NY on Saturday, February 22, 2020 from 1PM-4PM. Condolences and words of comfort may be expressed at Mary’s Book of Memories at
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Melanie Smith

Posted at 12:41pm
Rick, Donna, and families~
So very sorry to hear of Mary's death. I remember she always had a smile! You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Her greatest legacy is her beautiful family and keepsake memories to share~
Melanie Smith

Susanne Mannino

Posted at 10:39am
Mary will be missed so very much. I am one of her cousins, Susie Noviello Mannino. I didn't get to see Mary often, only once a year, when we had our ABRUNZO. reunion. She was a beautiful female "Heart, Body and Soul". She was so much fun to be with and I will miss her dearly. Rest in Peace Mary.

Joanne Paulison

Posted at 01:23pm
I am so sorry for the loss of Mary. I knew her because of golf at Corning Country Club. She was always smiling and a ray of sunshine. She will be missed.

Kathy Caffo

Posted at 11:50am
Mary was my loved hairdresser for over 25 years. We had so many wonderful, fun conversations. She made her shop an inviting, relaxing place to be. I will forever miss her friendship and wish to extend my deepest sympathy to the entire family. Kathy Caffo

Kristin Stone

Posted at 09:09am
Mary will be forever and deeply missed by her employees and customers/friends at Great Reflections. She entertained us with her funny stories, listened to our problems, and showered us with delicious baked goods and gifts. She was bubbly, fun and bustled around chatting with everyone making all feel at home. Such an amazing person and friend to so many. I loved the days we worked alongside each other and will treasure those memories.
Condolences to her beloved family .

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