Of Lamoka Lake, NY and formerly of Circleville, NY passed away peacefully at home with her family, Sunday morning, August 8, 2010. Mary was born June 23, 1931 a daughter of the late George and Lillian Plew DeKay. She was a member of St. Paulas United Methodist Church in Middletown, a volunteer for Meals on Wheels and retired from NYS Dept. of Labor in Middletown, NY. Mary was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and caregiver for many family and friends. Mary is pre-deceased by her husband of 27 years, Frederick and brother, Edgar DeKay. She is survived by her children, Diane (Mark Walker) Gregory, Gary (Mindy) Wegener, Dee (Ray) Cleary, Bruce (Irene) Wegener and Bill (Laurie) Wegener; twelve grandchildren; four great grandchildren; sisters, Esther North and Doris Smith and several nieces, nephews and cousins.